
How to Grow Spiritually by Following the Example of Christ
Have you ever wondered what it means to live a life that reflects the character of Christ? The Bible gives us a clear roadmap through the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. The first step is in Galatians 5:22-26. Paul describes the Fruits of the Spirit there. These are qualities that show the impact of a Christ-centered life. These fruits are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. They’re like a checklist for living in a way that honors God and blesses others.
But here’s the thing: growing in these areas isn’t something we do on our own. It’s the work of the Spirit, partnering with us and shaping us day by day. Think of it as a spiritual garden. The Spirit plants the seeds. It’s our job to water them. We do this by seeking God in prayer. We also study His Word and practice these virtues in our daily lives.
Digging Deeper: Six Christlike Virtues
To nurture your spiritual growth even further, let’s explore six virtues. These virtues are drawn from Colossians 3 and Ephesians 4. These virtues help us live out the Fruits of the Spirit in practical ways. Here’s how you can apply each one, with encouragement from the Bible:
1. Compassion
Compassion means caring deeply for others, especially when they’re hurting. Jesus demonstrated this in Matthew 9:36. He looked at the crowds and felt compassion for them. They were like sheep without a shepherd. We, too, are called to “clothe ourselves with compassion” (Col. 3:12-14). We should be a source of comfort, as described in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Start by being present for those in need—sometimes a listening ear or a kind word can make all the difference.
2. Humility
Humility doesn’t mean thinking less of yourself; it means thinking of yourself less. Romans 12:3 reminds us not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. Philippians 2:3-4 calls us to put others before ourselves. Jesus set the ultimate example of humility when He washed His disciples’ feet in John 13:3-17. How can you practice humility today? It might be as simple as letting someone else go first or admitting when you’re wrong.
3. Thankfulness and Gratitude
Gratitude is about recognizing the blessings in your life and thanking God for them. In Luke 17:11-19, Jesus heals ten lepers, but only one comes back to thank Him. Let’s strive to be like that one! Philippians 4:4-9 encourages us to rejoice and give thanks in all circumstances. Keep a gratitude journal, or make it a habit to thank God daily for His goodness.
4. Generosity
Generosity is about sharing what you have—your time, talents, and resources—with others. Mark 6:35-44 tells the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000. It shows how a small offering can multiply to meet great needs. 2 Corinthians 9:6-15 reminds us that God loves a cheerful giver. Whether it’s donating to a cause, lending a helping hand, or simply sharing a meal, generosity reflects God’s abundant love.
5. Truthfulness
In a world full of half-truths and misinformation, truthfulness stands out. Numbers 23:19 reminds us that God is always truthful. As His followers, we’re called to walk in truth (Ephesians 4:17-25). Being truthful means being honest in our words and actions, even when it’s hard. It builds trust and shows integrity—qualities that are invaluable in relationships.
6. Forgiveness
Forgiveness is one of the hardest virtues to practice, but it’s also one of the most powerful. Colossians 3:13 tells us to forgive as the Lord forgave us. Jesus teaches us to forgive not just once, but seventy-seven times (Matthew 18:21-22). Holding onto anger only harms us, but forgiveness frees us to move forward in peace. Start small if you need to—pray for the strength to forgive, and trust God to work in your heart.
Conclusion
Living a Christlike life isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. The Fruits of the Spirit and these six virtues provide practical steps. They help us grow closer to God. They also guide us to live in a way that reflects His love. As you focus on these virtues, remember that spiritual growth is a journey. Be patient with yourself, and let the Holy Spirit guide you every step of the way.
Ready to dig deeper? Join us for our “Christlike Virtues” series. We will explore these virtues in greater detail. We will draw wisdom from Scripture to help us live more Christ-centered lives. Together, let’s grow in compassion, humility, gratitude, generosity, truthfulness, and forgiveness!
As we journey together in faith, we can be inspired to embrace these Christlike virtues. Let us open our hearts and keep steadfast spirits. Let us seek wisdom in God’s Word. Let us grow in love and understanding. We must commit ourselves to living lives that reflect His grace. Together, we can make a difference, guided by compassion, humility, and truth. Blessings to you all as we take this step forward in unity and hope!
Minister A. Francine Green