
Why We Need to Be Careful Who We Listen To
Have you ever noticed how easy it is to seek out advice from people who tell us exactly what we want to hear? Imagine you’re looking for tips on how to eat healthier, but every article you click on just says, “Eat whatever you want!” It might feel good, but deep down, you know it’s not helping you.
That’s the kind of warning 2 Timothy 4:3-4 gives us, but about our beliefs and faith. In simple terms, these verses say there will come a time when people won’t want to listen to solid, truthful teaching anymore. Instead, they’ll look for teachers and “experts” who will tell them what they prefer to hear, even if those things aren’t true at all.
What does “itching ears” mean?
It’s like having a curiosity or craving for something new, different, or exciting—especially if it feels easier or more comfortable than the truth. “Itching ears” means wanting to hear the things that sound nice or fit our own ideas, even if those ideas don’t line up with what’s true.
Turning away from the truth
These verses say that people will turn their backs on what’s true and instead believe myths—stories or ideas that aren’t based on reality. It’s not just that they stumble onto these ideas accidentally; it’s that they actively choose them because it’s what they want to believe.
Why is this important?
It’s a reminder for all of us to be careful not to only listen to things that make us feel good or comfortable. Sometimes, the truth is hard to hear, but it’s better for us in the long run. Whether it’s about faith, life decisions, or anything else, seeking the truth—even when it’s challenging—is the wiser choice.
How can we apply this?
· Stay curious, but also stay grounded—don’t believe everything just because it sounds appealing.
· Be open to being challenged. Sometimes, the most valuable advice is the hardest to accept.
· Look for sources of truth that have stood the test of time, not just what’s trending or popular right now.
· Encourage others to do the same. Real friends help each other stay honest, even when the truth is tough to swallow.
In the end, 2 Timothy 4:3-4 encourages us to be wise listeners. It’s easy to follow the crowd and listen to whatever sounds nice, but real growth and wisdom come from seeking out what is true—even when it’s not what our “itching ears” want to hear.
Minister A Francine Green
August 2025