Why Name-Calling Is Never Okay: Setting a Better Example for Our Kids

Let’s Talk About Respect and Leadership

Let’s be honest—most of us grew up hearing the old saying, “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” Our parents and teachers taught us not to call people names because it’s mean, hurtful, and sets the wrong tone. It’s basic respect, plain and simple.

But what happens when those in the spotlight—especially national leaders—ignore this lesson? When someone like the President, who is supposed to lead by example, resorts to name-calling, it’s more than just disappointing. It’s downright appalling because young people are watching and learning from these actions.

Why Name-Calling Hurts Us All

Name-calling isn’t just childish; it damages trust, encourages bullying, and makes it harder for people to work together. When leaders call others names publicly, it sends the message that disrespect is okay, even normal. But we know better, and our kids deserve better.

Setting an Example for the Next Generation

Children look up to adults—especially those in charge. When they see leaders acting out with hurtful words, they can get the idea that it’s acceptable or even admirable. That’s the last thing we want. Instead, we should show kindness, patience, and respect, even when we disagree.

What We Can Do

·      Talk to kids about why respect matters, both at home and in public.

·      Point out positive examples of leaders who stay calm and respectful, even in tough times.

·      Remind children (and ourselves!) that calling someone names never solves a problem—it just makes things worse.

·      Encourage everyone to speak up against name-calling, whether it’s in school, at work, or on the news.

Conclusion

At the end of the day, respect is something we all can give, no matter who we are. Leaders like Andrew need to remember that their words matter—not just to the people they talk about, but to all of us watching, especially our kids. Let’s hold ourselves and our leaders to a higher standard, and keep the lessons our parents taught us alive: Treat others the way you want to be treated.

Minister A Francine Green

September 2025