Understanding the Seriousness of Verbal Abuse and the Call to Kindness
Why Name-Calling Is More Than Just Words
When we think about name-calling, it might seem like a small thing—just words tossed out in anger or frustration. But according to the Bible, name-calling, especially when fueled by anger or contempt, is a serious sin. It’s not just about hurting feelings; it can have big spiritual consequences.
The Bible’s Warning Against Insulting Others
In Matthew 5:22, Jesus warns that insulting someone or calling them a “fool” isn’t harmless. He says that whoever does this is in danger of “hellfire.” That’s a strong statement! It shows that God cares deeply about how we treat others with our words. The Bible links this kind of speech to severe judgment, reminding us that tearing someone down can be as damaging as physical harm.
Verbal Abuse: More Harmful Than We Realize
Words can do lasting damage. Jesus even compares contemptuous name-calling to murder, suggesting that it can destroy someone’s reputation and good name. Proverbs 3:11-12 backs this up, saying that belittling your neighbor is senseless and that wise people keep such thoughts to themselves instead of speaking them out loud.
The Spiritual Consequences of Name-Calling
Name-calling isn’t just a minor slip; the Bible says it can lead to God’s most serious judgment. When we use words to hurt or demean others, we’re not living up to the standards God sets for us. It’s a reminder that what we say matters, and that we’ll be held accountable for our words.
Encouragement for Kind and Constructive Speech
Ephesians 4:31-32 gives clear advice: get rid of bitterness, rage, anger, shouting, slander, and any kind of malice. Instead, be kind, compassionate, and forgiving—just as God has forgiven us. Ephesians 4:29 tells us to speak only what builds others up, not what tears them down.
The Bible is all about kindness, mercy, and grace in our conversations. We’re called to treat others with respect and tenderness, reflecting the forgiveness and love we’ve received from God.
Even Leaders Are Not Immune
It’s easy to think that high-profile figures, like the President, are above these warnings, but they’re not. For example, last night at the American Cornerstone Institute Founders’ Dinner, President Trump made negative comments about former President Joe Biden that quickly went viral. This shows that no one is immune to the temptation of name-calling. That’s why it’s important to pray for our leaders and our nation, asking God to guide our words and actions.
Conclusion: Choosing Words That Build Up
The Bible teaches that our words have power. We can use them to heal or to hurt. Name-calling is not just childish or petty—it’s a serious matter with real consequences. Let’s choose to speak with kindness and grace, lifting others up and reflecting the love God has shown us. In doing so, we create a community where everyone is valued and respected.
Minister A Francine Green
September 2025
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