Understanding Spiritual Separation and the Power of Honest Confession
Introduction: What Does It Mean to “Hide Iniquity in Your Heart”?
Have you ever heard someone mention “hiding iniquity in your heart” and wondered what that really means? This phrase comes from Psalm 66:18, which says, “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.” In everyday language, it’s about secretly holding onto things we know are wrong—our mistakes, bad habits, or attitudes—even if we don’t act on them openly. It isn’t just about what we do on the outside, but what we cherish or conceal deep inside. Let’s break down this spiritual idea and explore how it affects us—and more importantly, how honesty can set us free.
What Does “Hide Iniquity” Mean?
“Iniquity” is just a fancy word for sin, wrongdoing, or things that go against what’s right. When someone “hides iniquity in their heart,” it means they’re not just making mistakes—they’re keeping them tucked away, protecting them, or even refusing to admit they exist. It’s like having a messy closet you never open because you’re afraid of what might fall out.
You might cherish a grudge, ignore a habit you know is harmful, or secretly wish ill on someone. Concealing these things means you’re not dealing with them—and they’re quietly shaping your thoughts and actions. It’s less about outward behavior and more about your inner disposition.
Consequences of Hiding Iniquity: Spiritual Barriers and Separation
Psalm 66:18 highlights a big consequence: our prayers can be hindered. When we hold onto wrongdoing and refuse to admit it, it’s like putting up a wall between ourselves and God. We might feel distant, disconnected, or like our spiritual life is stuck in neutral.
It’s not just about prayer, though. Carrying hidden iniquity can lead to a sense of spiritual separation and even a lack of emotional peace. You might find it hard to feel truly happy, content, or connected to others. It can also affect our ability to grow, prosper, or experience the kind of inner transformation we hope for.
Why Do People Hide Wrongdoing?
So, why do we tend to hide the things we know aren’t right? There are lots of reasons, and most of them are pretty relatable:
· Fear: We’re afraid of consequences, judgment, or rejection if others (or God) really knew what’s going on inside.
· Shame: Admitting our faults can make us feel embarrassed or unworthy.
· Pride: Sometimes, we want to keep up a certain image or avoid admitting we’re not perfect.
· Habit: If we’ve always hidden our mistakes, it can feel normal—even comfortable—to keep doing it.
These reasons are common and understandable, but they can keep us stuck in a cycle where growth feels impossible.
How Hidden Iniquity Affects Us: Emotional and Relational Impact
The truth is, hiding iniquity doesn’t just affect our spiritual life—it touches every part of us. Emotionally, it can lead to anxiety, guilt, or a nagging sense that something’s off. Relationally, it can create distance from others, especially when we’re afraid to be honest or vulnerable.
We might also find ourselves repeating the same mistakes, unable to break unhealthy patterns because we haven’t faced what’s really going on. It’s like trying to fix a leaky pipe without ever looking under the sink—the problem just keeps dripping away.
Moving Toward Openness: The Benefits of Confession and Honesty
Here’s the good news: being open and honest about our struggles isn’t just the “right thing to do”—it’s the key to real freedom and growth. Confession (whether to God, a trusted friend, or even ourselves) helps us let go of the weight we’re carrying. When we admit what’s in our hearts, we invite healing, help, and a fresh start.
Letting go of hidden iniquity brings spiritual closeness, peace, and a greater sense of purpose. It allows us to experience forgiveness, move forward, and build stronger relationships. Openness creates room for learning, changing, and becoming the best version of ourselves.
Conclusion: Embrace Honesty for Spiritual and Personal Growth
We all have things we’re tempted to hide, but carrying them only holds us back. Psalm 66:18 reminds us that honesty isn’t just about keeping our conscience clear—it’s about staying connected to what truly matters. By choosing openness and facing our iniquities, we step into a life marked by peace, growth, and genuine relationships.
If you’re struggling with something hidden in your heart, remember you’re not alone, and you don’t have to keep carrying it. Embrace honesty, seek support, and discover the freedom that comes from letting go and moving forward. Your spiritual and personal well-being are worth it!
Minister A Francine Green
October 2025
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