Letting Our Speech Reflect Christ’s Love and Wisdom
Introduction: Why Words Matter Today
In today’s world where communication is constant—spoken, written, or online—the way we use words in public shapes our communities and connections. Words can encourage or discourage, build up or break down. As people of faith, the Bible urges us to choose our words carefully so that what we say honors God and brings good to others.
What Scripture Teaches About Speaking
The Bible reminds us that our words carry immense power. We are called to speak thoughtfully, using our words to build others up, be honest, and show grace. Careless, harmful, or foolish speech is discouraged because every word matters. The tongue can bring life or pain, and we are accountable for how we use it. True wisdom is shown through kind and careful speech.
Principles for Using Words Wisely
· Build Others Up: Speak in ways that help, encourage, and provide grace to all who hear you.
· Be Truthful: God dislikes lies. Be sincere and mean what you say, knowing your words will be remembered.
· Speak with Grace: Make your conversations gracious and uplifting, bringing blessing to every interaction.
· Avoid Gossip and Foolish Talk: Wise people know when to be silent. Idle words and gossip can damage friendships and lead to wrongdoing.
· Be Mindful of Tone: How something is said is as important as what is said. Gentle responses can calm anger, while harsh words can spark conflict.
· Guard Your Tongue: Though it is small, the tongue can do great good or harm. Use it carefully to avoid causing unnecessary hurt.
The Power and Consequences of Speech
· Life and Death: The tongue holds the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit (Proverbs 18:21). Our words can encourage and heal, or harm and destroy.
· Accountability: We will give account for every careless word we speak. Our speech can justify or condemn us.
· Brokenness or Healing: Deceitful or harsh words can crush the spirit, while kind, truthful ones bring hope and restoration.
· Lasting Effects: The impact of our words lasts long after they’re spoken, affecting both ourselves and those around us.
· Self-Control: Using words wisely is tied to self-control, an essential part of personal growth and spiritual maturity.
Living Out Biblical Principles in Public Discourse
Great care is needed to avoid quarrels, especially with those close to us or with whom we have responsibilities. Wisdom and grace make forgiveness easier, while bitterness and corruption make it hard. Christ’s love for us is constant, forgiving, and a model for how we are to love and forgive others. He calls us to show this love through our words and actions.
Filthy or corrupt speech comes from an unclean heart and can influence listeners negatively. As Christians, we are urged to reject such talk and instead use our words to encourage, uplift, and guide others toward what is good. Be kind, humble, and courteous, allowing God’s forgiveness in your life to inspire forgiveness and grace toward others.
Harsh words—anger, bitterness, and malice—offend the Holy Spirit. Instead, let your tongue be an instrument of kindness and peace, reflecting the love and redemption that come from God.
Conclusion
Let us remember the immense power of our words. May we use them to speak life, truth, and grace—intentionally choosing language that builds up, heals, and honors God, both in our public conversations and private moments.
Minister A Francine Green
November 2025
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