A Reflection on Individual Agency and the Structures of the Modern Age—In Layman’s Terms
Introduction
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Rom. 12:2 NIV)
The twenty-first century is a strange mix of opposites. On one hand, we’re surrounded by new inventions and ideas. On the other hand, we’re pressured to fit in and follow the crowd. Technology brings us together. It lets us share cultures. Yet, it also pushes us to think and act like everyone else. We often hear about the importance of being yourself. Despite this, it’s surprisingly easy to get swept up in what’s popular or “normal.” To stay true to ourselves, we must resist the pull to blend in with the latest trends. We should also be cautious of popular beliefs, even when they seem good or noble.
The Call to Resist Conformity
Resisting conformity doesn’t mean rejecting progress or turning your back on community. Instead, it’s about staying alert to subtle pressures that can smother our ability to think for ourselves. Non-conformity is a personal choice that takes courage and a clear sense of what you believe in. It’s not about rebelling just to rebel. It’s about being honest and authentic. This is especially true when your views don’t match everyone else’s.
Not Following Every Opinion
Today, opinions are everywhere—on social media, the news, and in everyday conversations. It’s easy to just go along with what’s trending. Still, real non-conformity means taking the time to think things through for yourself. It’s about making up your own mind, even if it means disagreeing with the majority. You don’t have to be contrary all the time, but you should stand by your beliefs, even when they’re unpopular.
Rejecting the Powers of the Age
Big forces—like governments, tech companies, and cultural movements—have a lot of influence over how we live and think. Sometimes, people accept what these powers say or do without question. But resisting conformity here means asking tough questions: Are these leaders acting in everyone’s best interest? Is this new technology helping or hurting us? It’s about refusing to let systems shape us. These systems often rank profit, control, or convenience over human dignity and freedom.
Averting Ideological Conformists
Even causes that seem obviously good—like social justice, protecting the environment, or fighting oppression—can turn into rigid ways of thinking. These movements can start demanding that everyone agrees completely, leaving no room for different opinions or approaches. Supporting these causes is important, but we need to recognize the complexities and avoid blindly following the crowd. Real change comes from thoughtful involvement, not just going along with what seems right.
The Structures of the Twenty-First Century
To understand why resisting conformity is tough, we must examine the “rules” that shape our world today. We also need to consider the systems that influence us. These include technology, global connections, politics, religion and new ways of thinking.
Technological Foundations
The internet and new technologies have given more people a voice and made information easier to access. But they also create “echo chambers,” where everyone repeats the same ideas. Social media often rewards popular opinions, and artificial intelligence can quietly push certain values or biases. Most people don’t notice how these systems encourage everyone to think alike.
Globalization and Interconnectedness
Globalization allows us to connect with people and cultures worldwide. Nonetheless, it can also make everything feel the same everywhere. Local traditions disappear in the rush to follow global trends. Unique identities are lost whether it’s in fashion, politics, or lifestyle. There’s pressure to keep up, leaving less room for individuals to stand out.
Sociopolitical Transformation
Politics today is full of extreme viewpoints—nationalism versus globalism, progressivism versus conservatism. Non-conformity means refusing to be swept up by either side and instead thinking for yourself. It’s about finding the middle ground and challenging any extreme position, not just picking a side because it’s popular.
Environmental Awareness and Sustainability
Caring for the environment is essential, but even here, conformity can water down real action. Some companies or people talk about being “green” just to look good, without making meaningful changes. Real resistance means pushing for true solutions, not just following superficial trends or gestures.
The Philosophical Imperative
Resisting conformity is ultimately about asking big questions: Who am I? What do I believe? What’s the right thing to do? The modern world gives us a lot of freedom to express ourselves. But, we must think carefully about why we make the choices we do.
Individualism and Identity
Being an individual doesn’t mean being alone. It means having the freedom to figure out who you are. You can decide what you stand for. This freedom comes while also respecting others’ differences. It’s a balance—being true to yourself and also connecting with the wider community without losing your uniqueness.
Ethics in Technology and Progress
As technology changes our lives, we have to be careful about where it leads us. Non-conformity involves questioning whether new inventions genuinely help people. It also means ensuring we don’t lose sight of what’s ethical. We should support technology that helps humanity, not just what’s profitable or convenient.
Conclusion
Resisting the urge to fit in with every trend or idea is not about shutting yourself off from the world. It’s an invitation to think deeply and engage thoughtfully. The twenty-first century is full of opportunities to be yourself, but it’s also packed with subtle pressures to conform. By staying alert, we question the systems around us. By sticking to our principles, we can contribute to society in a meaningful way. We can do this while still honoring our own integrity and freedom. That’s what it means to truly be human.
Minister A Francine Green
December 2025
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