A Reflection on Personal Preferences and Truth
Have you ever noticed how people sometimes stick to their beliefs even if the facts say otherwise? Whether it’s about race, religion, or politics, it seems like many of us choose to believe what feels right to us, based on our own backgrounds and personal preferences. It’s a bit like picking your favorite flavor of ice cream—everyone has their own reasons, and changing someone’s mind isn’t as easy as offering a new flavor.
Personal Preferences Shape Our Beliefs
Our beliefs are often shaped by where we grew up, who we spend time with, and what we’ve experienced. For example, if you grew up in a certain religious tradition, it’s likely that those beliefs feel “right” to you, even if someone from a different background feels just as strongly about their own faith. The same goes for political opinions or ideas about race—our surroundings and personal experiences play a big role in what we accept as true.
The Power of Confirmation Bias
One reason people hold on to their beliefs is something called “confirmation bias.” This means we pay more attention to information that supports what we already believe and ignore or reject things that don’t fit. So, if you hear a news story that backs up your view, you’re more likely to accept it—even if the facts aren’t all there. On the other hand, if the story challenges your beliefs, you might brush it off or look for reasons it can’t be true.
Religion: Belief Beyond Facts
This tendency is especially strong when it comes to religion. Religious beliefs are deeply personal and often go beyond what can be proved or disproved. Faith is about trusting in something bigger than ourselves, and that doesn’t always need evidence. So, it’s very common for people to believe what brings them comfort or meaning, even if others see things differently or question the facts.
Why Does This Matter?
Understanding that our beliefs are shaped by personal preferences can help us be more open-minded. If we realize that everyone has their own reasons for believing what they do, maybe we’ll be less quick to judge or argue. Instead, we can listen and learn from each other, even when we don’t agree.
In the end, it’s human nature to believe what speaks to us—but being aware of this can help us seek out the truth and respect the views of others.
Minister A Francine Green
January 2026
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