How the Bible Helps Us Navigate Life’s Choices Between Flesh and Spirit
Have you ever felt like you’re being pulled in two directions—one part of you wanting to do what’s right, the other tugging toward what feels good in the moment? Romans 8:6 shines a light on this inner tug-of-war. In simple terms, this verse says: “For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.” Let’s break down what this really means for our everyday lives and how we can live with more purpose, hope, and peace.
What Does It Mean to Be Carnally Minded?
First, let’s talk about that big word: “carnal.” In the Bible, “carnally minded” means having a mindset focused on our human desires—things like selfishness, envy, anger, greed, or just doing whatever feels good without thinking about the consequences. It’s living life based on what our bodies or emotions want, instead of what God wants for us.
Imagine only ever listening to your cravings—like eating junk food all day, getting angry whenever something doesn’t go your way, or chasing after more stuff just because you want it. That’s the carnal mindset in action. It’s not just about “bad” things, but about living with ourselves at the center, rather than God.
Consequences of a Flesh-Driven Life
Romans 8:6 is clear: the end result of living with a carnal, or flesh-driven, mind is “death.” But what kind of death? It doesn’t just mean physical death, but a spiritual emptiness—a life that feels hollow, disconnected from God, and missing out on true meaning. When we let our desires run the show, we end up feeling further from God and less like the people we were created to be.
Think about those times when you followed a selfish urge and it left you feeling empty or even guilty. That’s the kind of “death” Paul is talking about—a life that’s missing the deep, lasting joy and peace God offers.
What Does It Mean to Be Spiritually Minded?
On the flip side, to be “spiritually minded” means keeping our thoughts and hearts focused on God and His ways. It’s about letting the Holy Spirit guide our decisions, values, and daily actions. This doesn’t mean we become perfect overnight, but it means we start choosing God’s wisdom over our own impulses.
Being spiritually minded is like tuning your heart to God’s frequency. Instead of letting worries, temptations, or anger take control, you pause and ask, “What does God want in this moment?” It’s a mindset shaped by love, patience, kindness, and a desire to honor God above all.
Rewards of a Spiritual Mind
Romans 8:6 promises that a spiritually minded life brings “life and peace.” That’s not just survival—it’s a life filled with meaning, hope, and a sense of fulfillment. Peace here means more than calm feelings; it’s knowing deep down that you are in step with God, no matter what’s happening around you.
When we live with a spiritual mindset, we experience purpose, contentment, and a connection with God that transforms us from the inside out. It’s not always easy, but it is always worth it.
The Journey from Carnal to Spiritual: Practical Steps for Growth
So, how do we move from a carnal mindset to a spiritual one? The Bible teaches that this is a journey—a process of growth. Here are some simple, practical ways to get started:
· Spend time with God daily: Read scripture, pray honestly, and invite God into your routine.
· Pause before acting: When faced with a choice, ask, “Is this what God wants for me?”
· Surround yourself with encouragement: Join a community of believers who will support and challenge you.
· Practice gratitude: Focusing on God’s blessings shifts our hearts away from selfishness.
· Confess and let go: When you mess up, admit it to God and ask for His help to grow.
Remember, spiritual growth isn’t a race. It’s about taking small steps every day, trusting that God is working in you.
Scriptural Insights and the Bigger Picture of Romans 8
Romans 8 is packed with hope. Besides verse 6, it reminds us that “there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1), and that God’s Spirit helps us in our weakness (Romans 8:26). The whole chapter paints a picture of freedom—a new way of living, powered by God’s love and presence.
Being spiritually minded means living in union with Christ, choosing the law of love over the law of the flesh. It’s about letting God’s Spirit shape us, rather than being ruled by our own desires. This is how we experience true life and peace—the kind the world can’t give or take away.
Conclusion: Encouragement to Pursue a Spiritual Mindset
Romans 8:6 invites us to make a choice every day: Will we let our old habits and desires steer us, or will we set our minds on God’s Spirit and discover the life and peace He promises? Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. God is eager to guide, strengthen, and walk with you every step of the way.
As you go about your week, try to notice your thoughts and choices. Are they leading you toward God—or away from Him? Even small steps toward a spiritual mindset can bring big changes over time. With God’s help, you can experience the freedom, life, and peace that come from living in tune with His Spirit.
You are loved, chosen, and invited into a deeper, richer life with God. Keep pressing forward, and let Romans 8:6 remind you to choose life and peace, one day at a time.
Minister A Francine Green
February 2026
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