Category: Self-control

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When Words Turn Toxic: Why America Needs Truth, Grace, and Humility 

A reflection on speech, self-interest, and the soul of a nation  “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” Proverbs 18:21  Let’s be honest: America feels exhausted. Everywhere we turn, there is another angry headline, another bitter argument, another conversation filled with blame instead of understanding. You can feel it…

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How to Watch Over Yourself: A Simple Guide to Self-Reflection and Making Good Choices

Understanding and Improving Your Actions, One Step at a Time If you want to keep an eye on yourself and grow as a person, there are two main things you need to look into: 1. Figure Out What’s Really Good and What’s Really Bad Before you can make wise choices, you need to think deeply about what is truly good…

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The Meaning and Significance of “Most Holy Faith” in Jude 1:20

Building Up, Praying, and Remaining in God’s Love Introduction: The Context of Jude 1:20 The New Testament letter of Jude is a brief yet powerful message written to believers facing challenges from false teachers and growing immorality. In Jude 1:20, the apostle urges, “But you, beloved, building yourselves up in your most holy faith and praying in the Holy Spirit…”…

God’s Expectations: More Than Just Actions

When it comes to understanding what God wants from us, it might seem like it’s all about following rules and doing the right thing. But the truth is, God’s expectations go far beyond just checking off a list of good deeds. He’s not looking for perfection or an outward show of obedience—He’s asking for something much deeper: a connection with…

How True Faith Shapes Our Attitudes and Actions

How Genuine Faith Shows Up in Our Choices, Attitudes, and Relationships  Introduction: Faith as Assurance and Certainty  Faith isn’t just a feeling or a wishful thought—it’s a confident trust that shapes how we live. The Bible puts it this way in Hebrews 11:1: “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” And 2 Corinthians 5:7 reminds…

Listening and Doing: Making Good Advice Part of Everyday Life 

A Simple Guide to Turning Words Into Actions  What Does It Really Mean to Listen and Do?  We’ve all been told to “listen more and talk less,” especially from the advice in James 1:19. But what does that actually look like in our daily lives? Let’s break down this wisdom in plain language so it’s easy to understand and use—whether you’re religious or just want to be a better person.  Be Quick…

Put a Guard Over Your Mouth: Understanding the Power of Words Part 2

Personal Reflections Inspired by Psalm 141:3  “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips.” (Psalm 141:3, ESV) This simple but profound prayer has echoed in my heart many times. In moments when words tumbled out too quickly, I often wished I could catch them, soften them, or even take them back. Psalm…

Put a Guard Over Your Mouth: Understanding the Power of Words 

How a Simple Prayer from Psalm 141:3 Can Help Us Speak with Wisdom and Kindness  Why We Ask for Help with Our Words  Have you ever blurted something out and then instantly wished you could take it back? Whether in frustration, anger, or just without thinking, we’ve all said things that didn’t come out the way we intended. That’s why the Bible includes a heartfelt prayer: “Set a…

Why Political Vitriol Goes Against God’s Will 

How Divisive Speech Undermines God’s Purpose—and What We Can Do Instead  Turn on the news, scroll through social media, or even join a family gathering, and you’ll likely witness heated political debates. Voices get louder, tempers flare, and harsh words are exchanged. It’s easy to get swept up in this division, but have you ever wondered—what does God think about all this? Does constant arguing and name-calling fit into His…